Photo: pillow held against the chest
Sized for two arms.
About 16 × 16 inches and 3 inches deep, so it fits the space between your arms and your chest. Big enough to hold onto, small enough to carry room to room.
Free ebook included
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The Hold Break Up Pillow
$68.70
A big, slouchy plush pillow made for hugging. For long nights, heavy weeks and the people you wish you could be with.
- About 16 × 16 × 3 in: fills both arms
- Soft, huggable fill that gives when you squeeze
- Free Breakup Recovery Guide (ebook)
- 30-night trial
Order by 10 Dec for Christmas delivery
30 nightsTo try it
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Why it exists
Something to hold on to.
Some nights there's nothing to fix and nobody to call. The Hold is for those nights: a big, soft weight against your chest while the hard part passes.
Where it helps
Late nights. Quiet flats. Long weeks.
Pull it close when you can't sleep, curl around it on the sofa, keep it beside you when the bed feels too big. It doesn't need anything back.
Free with every order
The Breakup Recovery Guide.
Every Hold comes with our ebook: gentle, practical ways through heartbreak and the long nights. It's emailed to you straight after checkout. Choose 'Mine + one to give' and save $29.
Size & feel
About 16 × 16 × 3 in (40 × 40 × 8 cm). Soft, huggable plush that gives when you squeeze and settles back after. It's a hugging pillow, not a firm support pillow.
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The details
Made for hugging, nothing else.
Most pillows are built to sit behind you. The Hold is built to be held.
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Photo: close-up of the fabric
Soft to the touch.
A soft cover you can run your fingers over without thinking. Restless hands like having somewhere to go.
Photo: someone lying on the sofa with it
Gives a little when you squeeze.
It softens into the shape of your hold and settles back after. Lean into it, lie on it, pull it in tight.
Photo: all six colours on a bed
Calm colours for real rooms.
Lilac, Rose, Oat, Sage, Mist and Cocoa. Colours that sit quietly on a bed or sofa, so it can stay out instead of in a cupboard.
Why not just a cushion?
Built to be held, not leaned on.
| Feature | The Hold | Sofa cushion | Soft toy |
|---|---|---|---|
| Shaped for hugging | ✓ | ✕ | Varies |
| Fills both arms | ✓ | Varies | Varies |
| Looks at home on an adult bed | ✓ | ✓ | ✕ |
| Soft enough to sink into | ✓ | Varies | ✓ |
| Free Breakup Recovery Guide | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
| 30-night trial | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ |
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From people who hold theirs
In their own words.
"Obsessed with how soft this is! It’s become my absolute favorite thing to cuddle with on the couch. Totally worth it."
"Soft and comfortable, exactly what I was hoping for, my sister want to steal from me. Worth 100% every penny!"
"Got mine a few days ago and I haven't put it down since. So squishy and comforting, my husband loves it as well."
"Super cozy and high quality. The material feels amazing and it looks so cute in my room."
"10/10 recommend! Super plush and comfortable—I have to order another one as a gift for my sister."
"Absolutely love it! So cozy and snuggly, I take it with me everywhere I go out."
Seen at home
How people hold theirs.
30Night trial
Our promise
Give it 30 nights. Then decide.
Use it, sleep with it, live with it for 30 nights. If it isn't for you, get in touch and we'll sort it out, as set out in our refund policy.
- 30-night trial
- Free shipping
- Real people reply
QuestionsAsk us anything
Good questions, honest answers.
Can't find what you need? Message us. A real person replies.
How big is it?
About 16 × 16 × 3 inches (40 × 40 × 8 cm). It fills both arms but is light enough to carry from bed to sofa.
Is it firm? Can I use it as a back or neck pillow?
No. The Hold is deliberately soft and gives when you squeeze it. It's made for hugging and lounging, not for posture or orthopaedic support.
What is the Breakup Recovery Guide?
A free ebook that comes with every Hold order, full of gentle, practical ideas for getting through heartbreak and the long nights. It's emailed to you straight after checkout and it's yours to keep.
Can I send it as a gift?
Yes. Enter their name and address at checkout and it ships straight to them. The free ebook is emailed to you.
Can the two pillows be different colours?
Yes. Choose 'Mine + one to give', pick your colour, then choose the second pillow's colour from the drop-down.
How do I clean it?
Spot clean gently with mild soap and cool water, then let it air dry flat.
When will it arrive?
Delivery times for your country are shown at checkout. For Christmas, order by 10 December for delivery in the US, UK, Canada and New Zealand.
What if it arrives damaged?
Send us a photo within 7 days of delivery and we'll send a replacement.
How does the 30-night trial work?
Live with it for up to 30 nights. If it isn't right for you, contact us within that time and we'll sort it out, as set out in our refund policy.
Which currency do you charge in?
Prices are in US dollars (USD). Your bank converts if your card uses another currency. Import taxes or duties, where they apply, are shown at checkout or charged by your local carrier.
Something to hold on toChoose your Hold
Some nights, it helps to hold something.
Big, soft and here for the long nights, with our free Breakup Recovery Guide to help you through. For them, or for you.
- Free recovery ebook
- 30-night trial
- Free shipping
